Re: Are you a Victim, a Hero, or a Bad Guy?

In a social context, how can you have a Hero without a Victim? And a Victim without a Bad Guy?

You identified the Hero and Bad Guys but you refuse to identify the Victim. This is not possible. Could you be in denial about your victim role?

I don't believe in blind support for anything, Sara, including friends. True friendship, in my book, means telling a friend what he or she needs to hear, not necessarily what they want to hear. There is a selfish motive in giving blind support, or expecting it - it is counter intuitive and becomes something other than support. If I was a true friend, I would offer the most constructive thing I could from my experiences no matter how it made you feel about me.

I did not intend for you to be the focus of this thread, but I am not against it either and I welcome you if that is your wish. My intent was to share with others a tool which helped me greatly to get past things in my life. I appologize if it does not apply to you.