Re: Stressed about seeing my sexual abuser, PLEASE HELP

I realised from my own experience that sometimes it helped for my own development to turn the situation around and become the strong one because your uncle in fact is a very weak character. How about speaking to him lettin him know you want to see your grandparents more often which is why he has to leave or else you will tell them. Its a good feeling knowing that you have regained your position and that he cant do much about it.He deserves having to go out of your way- its a relativeley little demand. Make him feel uncomfortable. Of course always make sure you are protected and safe while doing that. Tweet