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Re: not sexually turned on by fiance
Sexual activity does not, under any circumstances, equate into emotional intimacy.
If it were me, I would run like my butt was on fire, finish my education, put romantic relationships on the back burner for a while, find out who I was, figure out where I was going, and set goals for my Self that did not include having a partner in the equation.
In this day and age, we don't NEED to have a significant other until we're emotionally ready. Even 50 years ago, the dynamics of committed relationships were changing - rather than commit to someone who was a good provider and produce offspring to assist in running the household (or, the farm), human beings began to experience the luxury of CHOOSING for other reasons.
So, there's no rush to secure a husband, 94706. The attention should be focused on 94706 evolving into a strong, emotionally healthy, self-assured, and productive woman.
Best wishes to you.