I do not know if you have read any of my posts about my past. I am not admonishing what you say, truly.
LOL Although, I would have not EVER consider that could be a possibility
"but have you considered the fact that when your boyfriend was being a beast and a tyrant and an abuser you were really sexually turned on? and now that he is nice and not abusing you, you have no sexual stimulation with him at all?"
Yet I think more women out there do not have enough self confidence, self worth for themselves that that statement may be truer than many will admit.
Stop and think before you marry this man. One can have sex without love, yet One deserves love to be in a marriage...with or without sex.