Re: See your friend as the best they can be

Hey Beth :-)

Yes, Alex is good, and my amazing parents are having him for 2 weeks so I can focus better on work. (I must do a rampage of appreciation for them soon!)

"So, my question is: what if the person wants nothing of you being positive while they are 'suffering'?"

They only suffer in your presence if that is the vibration YOU have activated in them.

Have you ever known someone responding to different people in different ways? It's because each person activates a vibration in someone else.

If you see the positives in your friend by doing a BOPA as detailed in my previous post to Monica, either your friend will stop suffering in your presence or she will not be around you when she's suffering. She can go complain, winge and moan with others and when she's with you, she'll be joyful.

I would prepave before seeing her - "It is my dominant intention to only see the good in others, to see the best in each situation" and this helps you focus on your emotions.

People only hear what they want to hear. You will hear the best if that's what you've activated.

Hope that helps
Love
Maya X

PS "I feel if I do not listen though, I am not being a friend to her"
I would do some contemplation on that statement. So, you have some stuck beliefs that a friend is someone who gets dumped on.

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