So, my question is: what if the person wants nothing of you being positive while they are 'suffering'? I know I answered in the wrong way to this person, yet she is in the midst of her 'life' which is much drama she has around her. I have tried to say, maybe not so gently at times, things that could lift her. She doesn't want to do anything with it.
I feel if I do not listen though, I am not being a friend to her (or them, there are a few ). Can I just listen and stay attached while being detached? Is that possible? Or is it in my responses to them that brings the vibration I am allowing to lower with them (I have just got the answer in typing that)? I guess I mean, is there a way I can be on my vibration and listen (and possibly comment) on my vibration, even if they choose not to raise their vibration? (Did that make sense?)