I am in this relationship because I love him and I truly enjoy being with him. He's I don't see him as helpless. I really don't know at this point what is going to happen. I don't know if he will choose to find help. I do know that I have tough times ahead, that are made even more tough by the fact that I deal with adrenal exhaustion. If it comes to it, I will leave him. It will be when I want to leave him though, not when someone tells me to.
And again, while you seem to be defending mtn, please remember I don't find him humorous, imaginative or informative.