Re: two hearts that beat as one..
Hmmmm, it is neat to see your take on these situations. Between this and your other posts regarding these two ladies, I don't know whether my take on it or my advice would say to pursue girl #1 or to pursue neither. (not that a stranger's advice should mean so much but I suppose that's why people post here)
Soooo, what I would seriously advise in matters such as these to follow your intuition rather than your fear. IMHO, I don't believe that fear has any purpose in society. It can appear to be a tool for preservation, but it is a lesser tool and it often harms far more than it helps. When a person meditates and quiets the louder voices, the anger, the fear, the mind chatter, the softer wiser intuition can speak. By saying don't listen to fear, that doesn't mean I think you should go for the girl. But by quieting the fear, you may find that your intuition knows that you need to spend time alone first, or your intuition may realize that it is only fear standing between you and a connection that would be really good for you... so my advice is don't let the fear be the deciding factor. Your inner wisdom knows better. Good luck with all this!