I hope that you can move on and not hold a grudge against Hopinso, I believe that she means well and really wants to help you, but sometimes we misunderstand each other and then things get said out of frustration, as is the case here in this thread.
Hopinso and I have also had misunderstandings, much bigger than this one, but we both realize that this is how it goes in this type of environment...when health and well being are at stake you are bound to get caught up in the moment and mindset of your personal beliefs, such is life...
Hopinso has a very big heart and I believe she really cares for you and wants you to get well...don't forget she also has many years on you, so it is wise for you to stop and listen to her.