love versus attachment
the dimension of thinking and and the dimension of 'being' run askew to each other...
they never really ever meet...
words will only go around and around...
they will never hit any real target...
you are not understanding what is being said...
thinking is a useful tool to help the body survive in the world at large... it makes an excellent servant... but when the servant is mistaken as the Master... that's when things go awry...
it is clear that you are very identified with your thinking mind... however, the ego, the [false] center of mind, does not have any real existence... it lives off the memories of the past... and projects that past to make up scenarios called the future... both do not exist... and these are what mind needs to keep it going... to keep it rambling on... to keep you engaged... to keep you occupied so you do not really come face to face with your self... and as a consequence, this rambling mind keeps you from living in this present moment...which is the only reality that exists...
if you were to spend one moment with yourself, you would immediately come to see that this is true... an undistracted moment...if you were to come to face this reality of you... in that seeing you would also see that it is the same for everyone else... as everyone else around you is also distracted in this same way... because they also have the same mechanism of mind.
the ego [as servant] likes to claim it knows... and knows ALL... that it is the one in charge... i suppose that is why you have chosen the user name that you have... and that is why i see that you say on your website "its all about conclusions"...
you are not understanding what is being said here because you have already concluded... you have concluded even before you have asked the very first question... you are not really interested in seeking any resolution... you are just seeking support for the conclusions that you have already made... this will result in your rejection of anything and everything else that conflicts with the foredrawn conclusions that you bring with you... your life will remain as it is because you have already concluded that this will be so...
cheers
and enough for today...