Re: Question #2 "in love" versus "love".
Yeah, we've all been there. That's called infatuation. No, I'm talking about somethng else. Something that doesn't burn-out. Something you see in old couples that was there right at the start. You can tell by the way they look at each other. The loves still there after a lifetime together.
The suspension of reality doesn't happen. Reality seems to be enhansed, made better.
I think it has something to do with frequency. The very fibration individuals occilate on. Everyone is a little bit different and when you meet someone who is very close to your own frequency you can sense it, feel it. If they're real close the sparks fly. And you can feel that also. And everyone around you can feel it. Something is going on and it's not physical.
I've spent my whole life loving but I've only been "in love" once. We were together three years and it just seemed, and was, so discustingly "normal". "Well, yeah, of course they're together" type thing. "They just go together".
And it's not finding your other half because you were already complete when you met them.
On and on it goes Doc