yes you know i think that is what it is..we feel sorry for ourselves.....and victimized to the point to where we only get weirdos in our lives..we send out that desperate ..no one likes me signal ..so then this is what happens...i dunno but i think alot of people can relate to this..sometimes i wonder if thats just the way it is...maybe only the weirdos have the guts to confront us? my email is amberlynn72@aol.com