Yes my wild life started at 40

in my twenties you could not do certain things they would call you names.
Won't share it on this forum though. At least I can share my positive experiences now.

Tried out things when I was 40, what is a great age, it has maturity, it gives you independence and you try what you want and don't care what people say.
I was working at a ski area, of course everyone was in their twenties except me :), they knew I was older but luckily I have always looked younger than my age (still do :).

One time I met some professor who said I had a "brother" crush, my brother is 12 years younger, like other people look for a father figure. So far I have never liked older men, just younger ones.

As it is is I lucked out and found my husband and we still feel lucky it has worked out so well, it is hard to predict when you get married. We are certainly thankfull.