I don't know if I qualify, since I have a worm in my head, and I'm prone to sharing violet flame fantasies. I most certainly don't know how to avoid fanning the flames of those who are looking for a fight for reasons beyond my comprehension. And I am not fond of exercising patience and understanding to masochistic degrees when attempting to diffuse a developing situation that inadvertantly and unintentionally became ignited. But I might be willing to try moderating for a week, and see how it goes, if I am not required to sit at the computer and read stuff that doesn't interest me for hours and hours every day. Actually, I could probably be more useful at the parasite Forum, since I'm rather new here.