My ex wife and I used to argue about who cooked and did the dishes.
When we explained that to the marriage counselers they said
that was normal. "I don't think that you understand", said my
wife. "My husband and I both want to do the dishes and cook".
The marriage counselers said that was "not" so normal.
Beautiful lady, too bad we were so different?
Dated for a year after our divorce, hmmmm?....
seems we did everything backwards. :) :) :)