Thank you so much for the links and the help! I found we do have 3 meetings in our area, one fairly close. There isn't any family member type meetings where I could go for support. I know he has to decide on his own... I won't push him to attend. I read the questions you should ask and WOW.. I don't know how we'll get through this. I plan on opening up my own bank account and will see about getting some work. My husband will know something is up if I want to work, maybe it will peak his interest. Again, thanks very much