My husband is gambeling

My husband and I have been married over 20 years and he's in the military. He's in a high security job and claims if he admitted he has a gambeling problem, he'd loose his clearances and would be asked to retire. He's willingly given me his debit card and credit cards so he can't withdraw money when he's traveling but it seems he's gotten another atm card on the sly, kept that fact from me and is up to his old bag of tricks. He's depleted our savings and I'm TIRED of this. I don't work and couldn't support myself if I left. I feel like calling his boss and telling them he's got a problem. I'm so upset, I'm at a loss of words for him. Some valentine surprise. Thanks for listening.