I would also like to comment...
...After the hurt, or happiness, is over, and recorded into our history of our individual life...there comes a kind of 'fresh page' of what to do next.
We are still alive...we breathe, and think, and have bodily needs such as food and drink...but, what shall we do next?
That moment, to my mind, is 'opportunity'. That is 'golden', our finest hour, where we form our next destiny.
Our lives are simply a series of opportunities, most of them unnoticed because of our involvement in emotions, or in pre-conceived "must's", "should's", and "ought to's".
Yet, when the dust settles, when we have seen first-hand the workability of our former 'principles', and when we have glimpsed new 'principles' and new capabilities we didn't know we possessed, we can redirect our feet to any path we choose.
That's what we are doing here, on CureZone...seeing other possibilities.
For thinking, many heads are better than one.
We only get one set of intuitions, instincts, noticers, and choosers; and one 'body of experience' (all we have learned so far); but we can 'peek' at others...and maybe alter our own direction a little for the better.
That's best done in the moment of calm, and opportunity, after the emotion of an experience is over.
Just a thought that crossed my mind.
Be well and happy, everyone.
Fledgling