Re: god someone help me PLEASE i.u.d. is destorying my marriage and life

I really understand all you say in this letter. As I too am going through all the exact same things with my wife on this IUD. Your letter was written as if I wrote it myself. She tells me she doesn't love me, but still sleeps next to me. And she says I am stupid, and we have 3 children to add to this. She told me she cares, but her whole personality seems to have changed since she started this IUD. It is really destroying our marriage. She is a real caring person at heart though. But now she is a whole new women. Recently she started to tell me she is getting bone pains from this as well. The Depression is really sinking in for both of us. Yet sge refuses any counseling. I don't know what to do? I hope to hear from you as to what your updates have been since you wrote this, or has anything changed. She finaly has considered to remove this. But now at what cost is what i will wonder about. I hope she returns to the normal loving person she once was. Thanks for telling it like it is with this. I don't know what to say for help other then have it removed. It is your best bet.