Re: god someone help me PLEASE i.u.d. is destorying my marriage and life

I am goin thru the same situation with my fiancé of 5 yrs.. About 3 or 4 months after having my son she got the iud and at first I was open to it, and things were ok for little while then I noticed she was more moody,then loss of sex drive, then declining weight loss,but was still the best mother just not the same to me. I am by no way perfect but our relationship hasnt differed but her feelings and emotions defiantly have, So I started looking up reveiws and noticed that a lot off ppl are having same issues so I told her about what I read and she thinks it's bs and says u can't believe everything u hear or see on internet so basically it went out window..so I let it go for awhile and eventually brought up again cuz there's no change so she said fine I'll get it out if that's what u want but I'll prolly get pregnant,and we both don't wanna rush into having another kid or Atleast she doesn't she wants to enjoy our little boy..in fact I don't want another as of now with it bein so much money and I have a daughter with someone else already so we live just ok and not well enuff for another..anyway she never went let alone made appt or attempt to have it out..so I let go until last nite and this morn I read these reviews and actually tears started falling from my eyes cuz even tho we had our normal arguments we loved each other and I miss that so much..again I am not perfect but I know this is related to iud.. I am gonna c if I can get her to read some of these posts and c if she will talk to me or doctor bout taking out b4 it's to late. Any further help would b much appreciated