First I feel sorry not only to you but to your wife as well.....both of you are not alone in this situation i can assure ...me and my husband had a rel row that we also almost end up a divorce...nto only that ..there were times that i just want to pack up and leave him without his knowledge luckily we have a 6 yrs old daughter that i love so much....Since I had Mirena my whole life was hell and it affected my relationship with my husband and our daughter...i was so irritable, sensetive..simple things that is not to my liking is a very,very big deal to me that i wanted to punch my husband if i could and i am the most laid back person ...Please do bear your patience with your wife as she needed it and maybe you could ask her if she wanted to email some of the ladies here who are willing to listen and understand where she's coming from and how she feel ....I feel sorry for both of you as you have two children that needed both of you and looking up as their model and heroes...don't lose hope as there no such as close doors to any problem...there is always a way out of it and if she wants to email me...i'm here willing to listen and never been biased...i was a counsellor before and now doing holistic therapy ..we'll pray that God may intervene in your relationship and may He touch both of you with a good result for the sake of your two children..God bless to both of you...lesmiserable