Trapper,
If you believe that homosexual behavior is not something that you are born with and is "free will" then how do you explain homosexual behavior among animals out in the wild?? A relatively small amount of humans are gay and a relatively small amount of animals in the wild are gay. Whats up with that??? I will tell you. In the vast majority of all cases it is genetic. You are born with it. Science is a cool thing. One day soon it will discover the so-called "gay gene", or at least the chemical differences in us that cause one to be straight or gay.