Have you ever talked about it with him at all? How does he feel about sleeping in another room? Does he ever bring it up? I do agree that you both deserve to have intimacy. I think your situation is different since there was never any to begin with. I know for my self, that sex is very important to me. But I think I got it confused with love before. Not good! Try having a heart to heart and see how he feels and maybe you can come to some conclusions what might help things work. Good luck!