ûnfortunately I know soooo much how you feel and cannot give you any advice. Reading your post sounded like an echo and I also find myself in this dilemma. I love my partner and I also believe sex is an important part of a functioning relationship. The thought of breaking up because of this breaks my heart but I also long for a nice and satisfying lovelife and for the feeling of looking at someone and really wanting them (not just thinking: god, he is so sweet and cute and all that). Cant wait to read the other posts about this and hoping someone give some sort of answer.