Well, I recently (May 25) got married to a wonderful man whom I know loves me, but there is a woman in his past that he said he was "over" but we recently saw her at a Christian concert and he turned into a blundering fool, and ran into someone nearly knocking them over, he also completely ignored my feeble attempts to get his attention....he apologized later, and said his heart skipped a beat when he say her...this happened last week and while he insists he loves me, I "feel" like he is IN love with her and it aches my heart.....
you really need to get some real face-to-face closure with your ex if you really hope to have a full and happy marriage, or you will end up with regrets and feeling trapped...you owe it to yourself and to your future husband......just my opinion.....