Re: Will you mail it or do I have to come pick it up?

Ha,ha,ha. That's truly funny my friend. Alikat is still so busy doing lots of homework in this area. The only way I know that there's things that work and things that don't is because I have finally struck into a lasting and worthy relationship of my own with a wonderful and traditional man. So now that things are at peace I can look back and see all the horrific signs of which I was either too ignorant or I down right ignored in spite of myself. As I'm sure you've found out yourself, 'wisdom' comes at a price. After many deep battle scars, I have learned it's never worth settling for second best, and best does come if you can wait.

I guess this is what propels many of us to answer questions on this forum, you want to say to people "oh, please spare yourself the pain", but unfortunately, the truth is that sometimes experience is the best teacher, and advice works only as hindsight.

I do like the way you reason, not only on this forum, but in the responses you give to sutff in other forums as well. Great minds must think, and think, and think, and think alike, huh? :-D Just kidding folks!