Thanks again, i'll definetly think about what your saying and you're right he isn't the only man out there. Yes i'm 36 and want a more serious relationship that could possibly lead to marriage. So if i understand what you're saying it is to check this guy out to see if he wants the same things. From our phone conversations that is what i thought he was interested i thought he was looking for the same things, but i that's yet to be seen.