Hi there, ithinktoomuchthereforeiamalone,
I've just been reading this thread and I have to say I am so very proud of you! All that thinking hasn't been in vain, you've been able to arrive at a lot of good conclusions and solutions. Yes, someday some very intelligent woman will be so delighted when you are interested in knowing where she's been. She'll just say; 'very busy at (____) and (_____), but waiting to talk with you again!'
Takkar, listen up girl, that's good stuff for you to digest.
Good luck!
Alikat