YES

Yep, that's it. Sorry, I have problems being wordy.
Take your time, relax, have fun with it... If he isn't at the same point in his life as you are in yours, you can't force it. IF you try you will only get hurt in the end. Go out, do things that you both like, and maybe somethings that only one of you enjoys... its all about gettng to know each other BEFORE you make up your mind that he is the one.
Good luck!