Re: Dating,pursuing,and men???

Thanks for your insight. It is so good to see how someone else views a situation. You had a few questions for me:

How many times had you spoken prior to meeting? WE HAD SPOKEN ABOUT 3 TIMES - PRETTY LONG CONVERSATIONS - MAYBE AN HOUR OR TWO EACH TIME.

What was he like in High School? Personality? HE WAS QUIET IN SCHOOL AND A YEAR YOUNGER THAN ME SO I DIDN'T PAY HIM MUCH ATTENTION. HE SEEMED SERIOUS I THOUGHT HE WAS A LITTLE MEAN. HE TOLD ME BEFORE THAT HE WAS SCARED OF ME THEN.

I DIDN'T REALLY WANT TO GET INTO THE EX-GIRLFRIEND THING AND I REALIZE THAT WASN'T WISE. I WAS PRETTY DISTRESSED FROM OUR EVENING AND DIDN'T KNOW WHAT TO DO! I DEFIENTLY WAS MORE WORRIED ABOUT IT THAN HE WAS. AT ONE POINT HE TOLD ME THAT I WAS TRYING TO HARD - TO KNOW HIM THAT IS! I WAS THINKING WHAT KIND OF MAN ARE YOU AND HOW DO YOU TREAT YOUR WOMEN,SO I ASKED QUESTIONS AND I WAS NERVOUS.

HE GAVE ME A HUG AND TOLD ME HE LIKED ME BEFORE HE LEFT. I THOUGHT THE EVENING WAS SOOO AWFUL IT'S HARD FOR ME TO BELIEVE THAT HE'S STILL INTERESTED AND I HAVE HUGE DOUBTS MYSELF.

I THINK YOUR THOUGHTS ON EXPECTATIONS ARE RIGHT ON TIME! HIS EXPECTATIONS I BELIEVE HIS EXPECTATIONS WERE TO BE PHYSICAL TO SOME EXTENT! SO EARLY IN OUR RELATIONSHIP WHAT SHOULD I THINK? HE SAYS THAT'S NOT ALL HE WANTS? WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THIS?

THANKS AGAIN,
TRAKAR