my mom is so very fearful of any change. Part of the problem is I know my brother won't do right by her, she is better off with me. Wish I had a sister, lol! Women always seem to "get stuck" with caring for others. We would have to sell the home, we co-own, but I have the mortgage and I can't afford to buy it for her to stay there, because if I got married, we would like to get a home there.