Well what about the damage to your spirituality? Sounds like a right selfish SOB. Please excuse my insensitivity but do yourself and this baby a favor and quit talking to him, have the baby and get your child support any way that you have to - that is unless you let this happen because you wanted it. In that case you are as On Your Own.
I know this may seem like the end of the world but I will stand by guns, this baby is blessing.