Honey, I too waited until we were married. That was 12 years ago and now we have a wonderful time showing each other our love and deepest pleasure. I learned my body. I know every part as to where to touch, how to touch and how much to touch. My hubby has learned it too. We really enjoy of love making. Sometime, we just had oral pleasure and no penis vs vagina contact. I love giving him a good oral sucking as he does me. We both have learned all the pleasure zones and even enjoy anal from time to time.
I hope that you will soon learn your body and you both will become good at pleasing each other.