I see a lot of stuff that you have written back and forth with Tracey below. I am glad that you are sorting this stuff out. I have a feeling that your parents are not native English speakers, am I correct? If yes, what culture/country do you hail from prior to England/USA/Canada or our friends in Australia/New Zealand/Etc.?
Just curiousity (I know it killed the cat, but the cat had nine lives didn't it?)