Hi Krissy,
Thanks for all your advice.Well, maybe it is silicone and SLS damaging my hair then.Im not sure if you are in UK but if you are, what shampoo/conditioner would you recommend? Is it necessary to use conditioner because using it always makes my hair too soft then. LOL I love the feel of my hair when it is wet but as soon as its dry, its unbearable.Have to tie it back.Is it worth getting few inches cut to get rid of very dry,dead ends?Would this be a start along with changing shampoo etc?