OK. I'm a little confused and need to ponder on this issue for a while. I agree no person deserves respect or communicating with if they are abusive but I've got this doubting niggling feeling and I need to ponder the issue. So I've decided for now to ignore Tomi's posting and any others for he is holding a grudge and he will have to deal with it or let God help him.
As for Trapper I need to just go away and think about this for a while, take some time to think about all this. You're probably right and I'm not sure why I've got a doubting feeling but I have and I'm only being honest.