Re: This posting does not warrant a sensible answer...

I can't post on here without him pestering me, like you he singles me out, I'm so fed up with his lies. He is a man with a grudge. Yes I can let it go but he can't, he never does. So what you're going to ignore him also? So everyone ignore the abuse and let them abuse us at their leisure and that's ok?

The only way I could ignore the abuse is not to read anymore of his postings so I won't. I will totally ignore him because he is not a man of God acting like that. God Will have to deal with him. If I ignore him though we can never work out the differences between us. People argue, get it out of their systems and either reconcile or stay away from each other. Even husbands and wives can argue sometimes.

To be honest I'm not sure that the number got it totally right. I believe people can change for the better, even Trapper. I know Tomi can be kind but he falls in and out with everyone like there's no tomorrow.

The problem is Im not totally convinced by what the number said, I wouldn't be giving Trapper a chance to change. The number saids he won't change, I even thought like that but my view has changed. I was listening to an old news alert about a woman who was abducted by a serial killer in the USA and he had murdered a lot of woman. He didn't kill her because she managed to bring him home to the Lord. She could have escaped but didn't because she felt a need to get him to repent and see the Lord and he did. There is hope for everyone after all, I know that now.

I believe as a Christian it is my duty to try to help people come to the Lord, we don't know exactly what will happen to us after we die but if there is a place that is a bad place then obviously you wouldn't wish that on your worst enemy, not anyone. I don't have any answers for Trapper but who knows what could happen in the future. Yes he can change if God opens his eyes.

So yes perhaps the number is right to ignore, but maybe it better to ignore the abuse postings and try to find some common ground with the civilised postings and if he does actually show some respect we should afford him some back no matter how short lived. I'm not taking his side, the complete opposite, I have had my share of his abuse like the rest of us.

But just imagine judgement and God says I know you tried hard with Trapper but I led him to that forum for a reason and you gave up on him, he's lost now, we dont know what Gods plan is for him.

Often people who verbally abuse have been abused themselves or have underlying problems.