Well that's the best way I think, be laid back and sanguine about all these kinds of subjects while not holding back with speaking what you believe to be true at the same time. Kind of hard to always pull that off but getting angry and yelling about it doesn't seem to do much good, in my experience at least. Like Spurgeon said, there's a way to kick someone down the stairs in a way that they might kind of like it. lol I don't know about that but but maybe Spurgeon was so likeable that it worked for him. :)
I hope no one was returning the favor when this happened though. :) :
"When Spurgeon was 54, he fell down a flight of marble stairs at his hotel in France. The preacher did a “double somersault” in the air before landing hard on the floor. After knocking out his teeth, Spurgeon rose to his feet and said the whole ordeal had been 'a painless dentistry'." (Autobiography 4:222).