I spoke to her today and expressed my desire to fully move away from her and to do that I have to leave the children which aren't my responsibility right now. I explained I need time to sort my self out but she said it's now or never. I told her if that's how it is then I'll go through the courts for my blood son and the other 2 you make it impossible for me. She won't get it but she won't because she always knows best and is always right.
I told her it's time to put my self first and good luck with her life.
Such a shame people like this exist and get away with it. The damage is going to be so dreadful on those children. But I can't help that