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You can not change other people.
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Published: 5 years ago
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You can not change other people.

Thousands of people with kids choose good divorce over bad marriage.

If you believe that you will somehow manage to change her, keep dreaming.
The only person you can change is yourself.
You can not change other people.

The only way you can live happily with that woman is if you could somehow enjoy knowing that she is regularly having sex with another men.
By reading your message, I have not gotten that impression. I do not think you would post here asking for help, if you enjoy the way she was treating you.

Love = respect!
Is it a sign of respect toward you what she is doing with other men?

If she does not respect you, she does not love you! Period.

What you know (what she admitted) usually just a tip of an iceberg.
What you felt for all those years is most likely the real truth. There could be 10 or 40 other men.

Be a man, and say good-bye.

You deserve much better woman, and all you have to know is that there is a much better woman out there waiting for you ... but you will never meet that better woman unless you get some balls and you turn your back to that one who is manipulating you and abusing your emotions and your love.

If you stay in this relationship with that woman, in a few years you will be
back on curezone asking for help how to cure lung cancer or liver cancer or some other serious disease your mind just building today.

Diseases don't just come from nowhere.

We create them by repeatedly playing negative emotions in our brain ... emotions of anger, pain, hatred etc ...

The only way to get free from those emotions is to get out from that relationship .... that woman is a very bad news for a good man like you.

You can still share the kids, but don't share the pain.

The only way that woman will ever respect you is if you turn your back to her!

Grow some balls and get some respect!

Buy the way, with best friends like that ... who needs enemies ?

Something is wrong in the brains of people around you .... and that is not your problem.

You can not fix that!

Your problem is that those crazy people around you made you think that something is wrong with you!

The only thing really wrong with you is that you actually allow them to play their sick games with you!

And that is something you can change!
Change yourself and save yourself.
It is not going to be easy, you love her very much and you are very much addicted to her .... but you will be the winner in the end.
Meditation and prayers can help.

Right now, you are the loser ... and you can not become a winner by staying a loser.

Whatever excuse you use to convince yourself that being a loser is somehow ok .... stop that, that is a sick way of thinking!

You are trying to manipulate your own brain and your own sanity!
That actually leads into insanity and into diseases!

Your kids need a healthy you, not a sick you!


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