Re: A bit more...

I feel that it's really important to be polite and take it slow with making statements of judgement when getting to know someone. I don't like conflict, but I did tell you a bit about my history when you opened up to me about yours. But is it a good friend if they do not speak up if there is a behavior or activity that they feel may be in conflict with their accquaintence's progress forwards in life with their goals?

Coming across as all friendly is something I do try actively to do.. But if I speak out about something I see as wrong, it usually comes out as one short burst of talk. It doesn't mean I do not still respect the person... But how a person takes what they are told (emotions are a choice and a lifelong pattern that takes conscious action to intervene in) is a personal responsibility.

I chose directly not to respond immediately, because of course it hurt to read the last sentences in your reply. But... I did expect it.

I'm still wishing you success in your journey in healing. Tweet