That anonymous number 461 is best ignored. They went on a paranoid tirade in a dfferent thread and actually sucked in a few otherwise rational people to join in. For some unknown reason they divert the focus from helping people into some other weird agenda - hopefully the moderators can step in - if that person isn't the moderator him/herself.
The parasite forum is unfortunately filled with some loose cannons.
Like I told the other person he/she harassed, you don't owe anyone an explanation for anything.