You know, I've seen your user picture and wondered whether that was actually you. I thought, "She's cute". Then I see you post this topic. Very... clever? Thoughtful? Insightful? Something. Your posting this made me think you were _really_ cute. Or anyway it gave me a really warm feeling about you. Thanks for posting this.
If I were healed today I would train to be really fit. Strength training, endurance training, flexibility and dexterity. I'd go mountain biking, maybe trail running, do more intense yoga, take up surfing again. I'd read more. I'd find real work and strive towards getting a place of my own. I'd get a second girlfriend (it's okay -- my girlfriend and I are in an open relationship). I'd do volunteer work. I think that's about all time would allow.