I spoke to my old friend again over the phone. I was very forward this time, avoiding conversation about how time has passed and what not. This time I asked him straight out "were you molested by your Father" he waited a minute and then said "Why are you bringing up the bad part of our past?" and then said he didn't havetime for this then he hung up. Once again I felt let down.
That was couple of weeks ago. Last night my sister called me and said she had some bad news. She lived in the same state that my old friends family relocated to years ago an had stayed in touch with the family. She said she spoke to his mother the other day on the phone telling my sister that he had take his own life and that se should come to the service.