"It feels like I'm walking around in a big insane asylum, which btw has an invisible administrator way up in a tree."
Yep, I know that feeling well.
Unfortunately, what should be considered as a biological issue, of what the woman wants to do with her body, (and it must be remembered that a fetus, would not exist at all without the woman's body), and an issue for the individual woman, has become a tool for power and control, and the religions (made up by people, to control other people), use this tool to control and condemn women.
Without the interference of religion and religious people, it would remain an issue for the individual woman only.