Thank you all and keep posting!

I haven't answered all the responses but I have learned and had awakenings with every opinion and I really appreciate your time and thoughts.

It is truly a deep subject and I am sure this thread could go on for awhile!

Your posts have made me less nervous about my age and thinking more abt adoption, that way I could choose the gender and age and meet the kid first.

I wish I could be the one tending to the growing fetus with my own foods and supplements and toxin avoidance, but perhaps someday a little kid from a 3rd world country or even from my own country will need a home and loving mom. Maybe that is more important than me being in control of the pregnancy. Let someone else try their best, although I don't think most folks that give up their kids are organic.T hat is OK. i suppose sooner or later there will be a dad figure but there isn't a permanent one there now.

I wonder if an adopted child could love the adoptive parent as much as it would love a blood related parent? Tweet