you must be misunderstanding me

first, i did ask if she was financially able, so i'm not sure why you mention ppl w/alot of kids who can't support them. my post clearly states that i am in favor of ppl who can financially support.

also, i never said that she was not putting her child first. what i did say was that many ppl have children to fulfill a need of wanting to be parents instead of looking at the fact that the child needs certain things..siblings, financial support, both parents etc. i know i'm telling the truth on this because there are too many ppl out there having children and not caring for them properly. they want to be parents because they see everyone else is a parent. we live in a world where everyone wants to be "normal" so they do what they see others do. if everyone is having a child, then they want a child irrespective if they can care for it or not.

to me, having kids at a late age is not really a wise idea. Tweet