Re: Why is being nasty instead of being nice pay off

I worked with a grumpy old man. He caused years of tears for his poor wife and children.

Any questioning of his authority brought immediate reprisal. He was not physically violent but he had a hair trigger.

During therapy we discovered that he had been treated very badly by an ex-girlfriend in the 1940's. He still had subconscious hard feelings towards her.

Using BSFF we quickly worked out his ill feelings he had for her and in only one session his personality changed completely.

Today his grandchildren love him and his wife has found a new love for the no longer grumpy old man.

Everybody judged him wrong, yes he was unpleasant and he didn't seem to be able to control his moods, but when the root cause was released his life improved more than he ever dreamed possible. Tweet