SHhhhhhhh don't say it isn't a perfect reality too loud. You may be stormed the"everything is perfect just the way it is" crowd, even being tortured because we have more than one life. Trouble is with that belief you can keep coming back to continue the torture.
I take it you don't have any snake charmers in your area? I play a mean kazzo. That would have led him, er I mean scaird him away.