Enlightenment is an "illusion" too. There are also a myriad of enlightenment definitions. Illusion is being bounced about like it somehow is an excuse in allowing anything and everything (giving your power away). Does this theme sound familiar. Old world religions have levered the same giving up of power under different disguises.
Can I suggest that if the illusion of individualism wasn't an important aspect of the "illusion" of consciousness, it wouldn't be part of the circuit?
Take your power back. The oneness movement is a sham. Sounds great on the surface but when it is revealed that you are giving your power away to another force that is leveraging it away from you, it takes on a new context.
Think in terms of balance, flow, experience.....freedom.